Monday, March 30, 2009

说比做难


27到29号在古晋的Hilton上 Money & You,
来了一个复习生,他是实践家台湾地区的副总经理,NLP专家,林君翰老师。

他说了一句话:说比做难

哦?一般上我们会说做比说难嘛!
话太容易说出口,我们经常听到一些废话;做事是却可能需要根多的元素。。

那句话翻译成更白话一点应该是(我个人的解释):
对于普通人来说,做比说难。
如果你是一个负责任/廉正的人,不随意说话,说话算话,这样相对,做就比说容易多了!
对吗?
说说看!!

6 comments:

Chiew said...

Another way of thinking is people talk a lot but say nothing much. You can talk with your family and parents but you never get to the issues. You can have many friends and talk shit all day but when you reach your breaking point, you'll see many things were left unsaid. That all sounded reasonable and all but it probably has nothing to do with businesses hahahahahaha!

tzongyih said...

Do not have to say what, haha~

Chiew said...

Ok ok. Round 2.

A man is only worth as much as his words. Actions speak louder than words. Sticks and stones may break my bones but words cannot. The pen is mightier than the sword.

My point? It's a complete tangent! I used this tactic to score marks in presentations. It leaves a great impression but it isn't as deep as you might think.

tzongyih said...

有趣,有深度~
帮我看看我的理解对不对...
A man is only worth as much as his words.
一个人说出什么的话,就可以知道他的价值。
他所说的是真的,实践过的,有规划的(要行动的)还是讲爽而已。

Actions speak louder than words.
无法知道他所说的话是否只是讲爽,就看他是否有行动~这能看这人是否有价值,是否值得信任。
不一定要求已经成功,只是有否行动,反应,参与或修正/成长。。

Sticks and stones may break my bones but words cannot.
对于肉体确实如此,但对于心灵,言语的伤可能更伤。

The pen is mightier than the sword.
因为这是文明加知识时代,战争的武器已不同。

哈哈~我的理解对吗?是你的意思吗?
和你这样讲话,很爽!
谢谢你~

Chiew said...

Those are all quite famous english sayings. (assuming i didn't misquote)

A man is only worth as much as his words: A man is measured by his ability to keep his promises.

Actions speak louder than words: You can make your point faster with an action then trying to explain with words.

Sticks and stones may break my bones but words cannot: People say this to discourage you from getting to worked up over other people's criticisms and/or gossip because it can't hurt you like a sharp stick or stone.

I quoted all these to throw you off. My true aim was to unbalance you. To mislead you. And it is my guess that this is what that person did too.

tzongyih said...

ah?
may i know why would you like to unbalance me??
don understand~
i think everything has two faces lar~